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Break up. 

A word that can probably take your life away. It hurts. It surely does. Because you can never go from going out to being friends again from here.Too wide a topic, so many words to pen down here. But I'd try and keep it precise.

You break up for different reasons. Maybe you're already done with emotions and decides to call it off, Maybe one of you starts liking someone else and thinks that they are with a wrong person from many years, Maybe your priorities don't match now, maybe your loved one thinks that there's not required warmth in a relationship anymore or maybe one of you gets a sudden realization that it just wasn't love, it was just friendship and nothing else. Too late to decide?

But the thing that is common with most of the breakups is you decide to remain friends. Just like that. It's a lie. You do it just to take the permanence out of the break up because you still can't afford to consider that person going away from your life forever. So you do stupid amendments like that. Also because you know when you'd listen to any music, you'd visit the park where you jogged together for years, you'd go alone for a long drive on romantic evenings, you'd sit alone, you'd visit an area where you've been together even once, you'd miss that person badly and way too much. You'd miss your loved one. so you decide to be in touch anyway.

Know that, There were many moments you created with a pure intention to treasure them as life remembrance.

If any such memory gives you tears now, Cry it out, Wash all your emotions but make sure never ever you degrade the love you once shared by creating a fictitious story to prove your loved one wrong or I'd rather say, To prove yourself right. I repeat. Never play a blame game on each other if your love was true even for one day. Respect it. Respect the differences.

What others would say shouldn't matter because it never mattered when you were together. It talks about their mentality but you don't be a part of their singing tune by cursing your ex inside out and middle. Know that you once loved that person with all your heart. Be protective still. May not be for your ex, but for the memories you created.

As someone said, There were times when you were happy together but your love just couldn't get mature like many whiskeys. It just didn't turn into a scotch. Not anybody's fault.